The framing
What “neurodivergent” means.
Neurodivergence describes brains that develop or function in ways that differ from what is statistically typical: including autism, ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia, dyspraxia, Tourette’s, OCD, and others. The term was coined by autistic sociologist Judy Singer in the late 1990s and is associated with the neurodiversity movement: the idea that these differences are part of the natural variation in human cognition, deserving of accommodation and respect rather than only treatment.
Neurodivergent people face real challenges, often made worse by environments designed for neurotypical brains. They also bring real strengths: pattern recognition, focus on areas of interest, divergent thinking, sensory acuity, deep empathy. The most useful question isn’t “how do we fix these brains?” but “how do we build classrooms, workplaces, and communities that work for the full range of how brains actually work?”
The numbers
How common neurodivergence actually is.
~1 in 36
U.S. children identified with autism spectrum disorder, per the CDC’s 2023 ADDM report.
CDC ADDM Network, 2023
~11%
of U.S. children aged 3–17 diagnosed with ADHD.
CDC, NHIS data 2022
15–20%
of the population estimated to have some form of dyslexia or learning differences.
International Dyslexia Association
Neurodivergence isn’t rare. The likelihood that you, someone you love, or a classmate is neurodivergent is high. Most are undiagnosed.
Where to give
Vetted organizations doing important work.
Each of these is a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit. Donations go directly to them and you receive a tax receipt automatically. I’ve picked organizations that are well-rated by independent watchdogs (Charity Navigator, GuideStar) and that center the voices of the communities they serve.
Autistic-led
Autistic Self Advocacy Network (ASAN)
Founded 2006 · “Nothing about us without us.”
The leading autistic-led advocacy organization in the United States. ASAN works on policy, civil rights, and community programs that center autistic perspectives in decisions that affect autistic lives.
Donate to ASAN →
ADHD support
CHADD
Children and Adults with Attention-Deficit / Hyperactivity Disorder
National nonprofit serving the ADHD community since 1987. Provides education, advocacy, and family support, plus the National Resource Center on ADHD funded in cooperation with the CDC.
Donate to CHADD →
Autism & neurodiversity
AANE
Association for Autism and Neurodiversity (formerly AANE: Asperger / Autism Network of New England)
Provides support, education, and community for autistic and neurodivergent individuals across the lifespan, with a strong focus on adult and family programming.
Donate to AANE →
Dyslexia & learning
International Dyslexia Association
IDA · founded 1949
Promotes literacy through research, education, and advocacy. Provides clinical guidelines and teacher-training standards used in schools and clinics worldwide.
Donate to IDA →
Mental health
NAMI
National Alliance on Mental Illness
The largest grassroots mental health organization in the US. Provides peer-led support, education, and a national HelpLine. Strong programming for teens and young adults.
Donate to NAMI →
Mental health research
Brain & Behavior Research Foundation
100% of donations fund research grants
Funds the next generation of mental-health and neurodevelopmental research. Their funding model is unusual: 100% of public donations go directly to scientist grants.
Donate to BBRF →
How to choose. If you’re donating from outside the US, several of these organizations have international affiliates, check their websites. If you can give monthly rather than once, recurring donations are more useful to nonprofits than one-off larger gifts. If you can’t give money, follow them on social media, share their materials, or volunteer.
Resources
If you or someone you know is neurodivergent.
Understanding
Getting evaluated or supported
- Talk to your pediatrician or family doctor as a first step. They can refer you to a developmental pediatrician, neuropsychologist, or psychiatrist.
- In school, ask about a 504 Plan or IEP if accommodations would help.
- If you’re an adult, your insurance will list mental-health professionals; many specialize in adult ADHD or autism diagnosis.
For families
- Understood.org, resources for parents of children with learning and thinking differences.
- NAMI Family-to-Family education program (free, peer-led).
- Local school district neurodiversity / disability parent advisory councils.
A note from me
Why I made this page.
Some of the most curious, capable, original-thinking people I know are neurodivergent. The world doesn’t always make space for the way they process it: and the world is poorer for it. NeuroCalm, one of my projects, was designed with autistic individuals in mind, but I think the underlying idea, that brains under strain deserve gentle, well-timed support rather than judgment, applies broadly.
If you have suggestions for organizations to add, resources I’ve missed, or experiences you’d like reflected better, please write to me.